Comments on: The 2 Types of People You Will Meet: Givers and Takers http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/ Build and Expand Your Social Circle from Scratch Tue, 07 Jul 2009 20:20:43 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: ramy http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/comment-page-1/#comment-356 ramy Sun, 14 Jun 2009 20:26:34 +0000 http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/09/14/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/#comment-356 do you think every body like to make friend? I think the best gift in life is the best firend,the best friend is a confidant friend that they can talking about different subject in the life,I think married and alone person need to have a really friend in the life but is it difficult to find because most did not believe this anyway.the base of a good friend is on ,honestyly,politely,respectful,unexpecting,nonjudgment. do you think every body like to make friend?

I think the best gift in life is the best firend,the best friend is a confidant friend that they can talking about different subject in the life,I think married and alone person need to have a really friend in the life but is it difficult to find because most did not believe this
anyway.the base of a good friend is on ,honestyly,politely,respectful,unexpecting,nonjudgment.

]]> By: laura http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/comment-page-1/#comment-355 laura Fri, 05 Jun 2009 16:20:10 +0000 http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/09/14/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/#comment-355 U know one thing for sure, some people are not willing to share anything they have with u for the mere fact that they are not acquinted with u but on the other hand we should always no matter the circumstance share the little we have whether we know eachother or not.Because our sharing alone can save someones life nd the life we save today may save ours tomorrow. U know one thing for sure, some people are not willing to share anything they have with u for the mere fact that they are not acquinted with u but on the other hand we should always no matter the circumstance share the little we have whether we know eachother or not.Because our sharing alone can save someones life nd the life we save today may save ours tomorrow.

]]> By: wini http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/comment-page-1/#comment-347 wini Sun, 29 Mar 2009 07:41:23 +0000 http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/09/14/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/#comment-347 i have a strees when i think love i have a strees when i think love

]]> By: niha http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/comment-page-1/#comment-258 niha Mon, 09 Mar 2009 13:18:28 +0000 http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/09/14/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/#comment-258 i felt very happy by.looking 4 such a great website of building relation vth people and also building ones new world with people. i felt very happy by.looking 4 such a great website of building relation vth people and also building ones new world with people.

]]> By: Larry http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/comment-page-1/#comment-69 Larry Fri, 30 Jan 2009 18:46:04 +0000 http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/09/14/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/#comment-69 I feel guilty sometimes people often come up to me on the street,and ask for money,in your mind you know this a game,but still,you often wonder what if it is not a game.What if they are really hungry,I still can`t be sure,so I end up giving them whatever change I have in my pocket.I guess,you can add sucker to your list. I feel guilty sometimes people often come up to me on the street,and ask for money,in your mind you know this a game,but still,you often wonder what if it is not a game.What if they are really hungry,I still can`t be sure,so I end up giving them whatever change I have in my pocket.I guess,you can add sucker to your list.

]]> By: Kyle http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/comment-page-1/#comment-63 Kyle Thu, 22 Jan 2009 01:02:11 +0000 http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/09/14/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/#comment-63 @within: I couldn't agree with you more. Sometimes it's good to give value to our friends, but we always have to be careful of getting stuck with their negativity. We can only help so much. Some people just want to have the world feel sorry for them w/o helping themselves first. @within: I couldn’t agree with you more. Sometimes it’s good to give value to our friends, but we always have to be careful of getting stuck with their negativity. We can only help so much. Some people just want to have the world feel sorry for them w/o helping themselves first.

]]> By: something of value http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/comment-page-1/#comment-17 something of value Fri, 05 Dec 2008 17:55:35 +0000 http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/09/14/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/#comment-17 I’m a bit sick of all the bogus information I read about “the law of attraction.” I have seen everything from “just sit there” to “meditate and focus on your dreams, and everything will come to you.” If you believe this, I I’m a bit sick of all the bogus information I read about “the law of attraction.” I have seen everything from “just sit there” to “meditate and focus on your dreams, and everything will come to you.” If you believe this, I

]]> By: within http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/08/21/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/comment-page-1/#comment-11 within Sun, 19 Oct 2008 18:08:05 +0000 http://www.socialfundamentals.com/blog/2008/09/14/the-2-types-of-people-you-will-meet-givers-and-takers/#comment-11 Cool Post! I want to go deeper into that. There are social takers that look like victims. They have some 'poor me' mentality. When you talk to them, you want to help them, you listen to their problems (give value), maybe you have some heartful advice or some sympathy but you somehow can't reach them. They're so lost in their darkness that you try harder. You try to convince them that the world is good, there is hope. (See you always give and they always take. You will hear no thank you from them, only complain) Then you have enough. You want to leave. Then they go like 'See, I was right, the world is bad. Now you leave me too' And you start to feel guilty. Now they turned everything around so that YOU are the source of their suffering. That YOU are mean like the rest of the world. I hope you see where I want to go with this. Whenever somebody makes you feel inadequate, stupid, wrong, mean you better take a close look at what's going on. He is a taker. Be aware of the value you give to someone and what you get back from them. Thanks man keep it up Cool Post!
I want to go deeper into that. There are social takers that look like victims. They have some ‘poor me’ mentality. When you talk to them, you want to help them, you listen to their problems (give value), maybe you have some heartful advice or some sympathy but you somehow can’t reach them. They’re so lost in their darkness that you try harder. You try to convince them that the world is good, there is hope.

(See you always give and they always take. You will hear no thank you from them, only complain)

Then you have enough. You want to leave. Then they go like ‘See, I was right, the world is bad. Now you leave me too’

And you start to feel guilty. Now they turned everything around so that YOU are the source of their suffering. That YOU are mean like the rest of the world.

I hope you see where I want to go with this. Whenever somebody makes you feel inadequate, stupid, wrong, mean you better take a close look at what’s going on. He is a taker.

Be aware of the value you give to someone and what you get back from them.

Thanks man keep it up

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